How to Talk so Someone With Addiction Will Listen (families)
Help for families struggling with an addiction problem
Useful stories and common sense answers to your questions about addiction, treatment, and recovery from Scott McMillin, co-author of “Freeing Someone You Love from Alcohol and Other Drugs” and six other popular addiction books.
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Quick Onset: “One Drink” Alcoholism
One large survey of alcoholics found that some 14% had actually become dependent within a year of the first drink. The percentage almost doubled when the time period was extended to two years.
Topics: alcohol, alcoholism, disease, recognizing addiction, signs and symptoms
Seniors With Addiction Have Special Needs
That doesn’t mean you need a program that treats senior exclusively. It does suggest that you should concentrate your efforts on programs with access to physician care beyond simple detox.
Topics: co-occurring disorders, finding the right treatment, getting help, health care, recognizing addiction, referral, seniors, signs and symptoms
The Power of Mindfulness
Mindfulness therapies are a way of stepping outside your everyday attitudes and beliefs — those automatic to your thinking — in order to consider alternatives that might improve your life.
Topics: mindfulness, Recovery Tools, relaxation, spirituality, tools for recovery
Environment & Expectations: Do They Influence Addiction?
Much of the anxiety the addicted person feels is anticipatory, based not on actual withdrawal symptoms but on the fear of not being able to find an adequate supply of the drug when they arrive.
Topics: addiction and the brain, alcoholism, compulsive behavior, gambling, models of addiction
If You’re Really Recovering, Why Do You Need AA?
Motivation springs from external as well as internal sources. Our internal desire for change is rarely enough to get us all the way through to our stated goals.
Topics: 12Step, maintaining sobriety, recovery support groups, Recovery Tools, tools for recovery
Shopping for Treatment
Current research suggests that an optimal treatment episode is in the neighborhood of three months. That doesn’t mean it must be all in residence.
Topics: family involvement, finding the right treatment, getting help, referral
Is it a ‘reason’ or an ‘excuse’?
Anybody who lives or works with an active alcoholic is likely to hear a lot of excuses, along with protests that they are not, in fact, excuses.
Topics: communication, family dysfunction, recognizing addiction, toxic relationships
What is a “Safe” Drinking Level?
Problems with alcohol are better defined in terms of the problems themselves than some arbitrary amount consumed.
Topics: alcohol, loss of control, recognizing addiction, signs and symptoms
Is a Good Intervention Dramatic?
The technique works. But it doesn’t make for very entertaining TV, which is why they usually leave that part on the cutting room floor.
Topics: intervention, Intervention Series
Intervention and Publicly Funded Rehab
Explain your situation and make a request: You want your nephew’s name placed on the admissions list for a date beyond the current waiting list.
Topics: finding the right treatment, intervention, Intervention Series, negotiation, referral