Addiction Clinicians
How Craving Works
This short article includes a quick inventory to assess your own problems with craving, and techniques for fighting back and maintaining sobriety.
Topics: craving, Recovery Tools, tools for recovery
Effective Communication with an Addicted or Alcoholic Person
Whether you are planning an intervention, or just trying to nudge someone a little closer to the point of getting help, or even trying to rebuild a good relationship with a newly-sober friend or family member, communicating effectively will help.
Topics: communication, Effective Communication with An Addicted or Alcoholic Person
Credibility
If something contradicts his/her experience, they’ll believe the experience. However, if we’re able to provide information in such a way that it better explains that experience, we gain credibility that extends to other positions we may take.
Topics: communication, Effective Communication with An Addicted or Alcoholic Person, getting help, signs and symptoms
Contracting
You should expect the alcoholic/ addict to test the agreement. It’s only natural. They need to see if you really mean it, or were just blowing smoke. If you stick to your guns, they’ll abandon the challenge.
Topics: communication, Effective Communication with An Addicted or Alcoholic Person, getting help, negotiation
Defense: Denial
Repeated problems related to drinking or drug use force even the person in denial to acknowledge something is wrong–eventually.
Topics: Alcoholic Defenses, defense mechanisms, intervention
Consistency
It’s a much-repeated observation of psychology, that people feel an urge to act in ways that are consistent with their previous actions.
Topics: co dependency, communication, Effective Communication with An Addicted or Alcoholic Person, getting help, intervention
The Mighty Commitment
People with alcoholism learn to test the resolve of those around them. That doesn’t mean they’re unaware of the need for change, just that they aren’t certain that other people will be there to support them.
Topics: communication, Effective Communication with An Addicted or Alcoholic Person, getting help, intervention
Clarity
It’s more about knowing exactly what we hope to gain from an interaction, and moving steadily towards that goal.
Topics: communication, Effective Communication with An Addicted or Alcoholic Person, getting help, intervention
Dual Dilemma: The Problem of Co-Occurring Disorders
It took a while to develop effective guidelines for use of psychiatric meds with a population that was already addicted.
Topics: co-occurring disorders, prescription medications
Contrast
We want to simplify difficult choice so as to maximize the chance the alcoholic person will make the right one.
Topics: communication, decision making, Effective Communication with An Addicted or Alcoholic Person, getting help, intervention