How Craving Works

December 12, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

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This short article includes a quick inventory to assess your own problems with craving, and techniques for fighting back and maintaining sobriety.

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Effective Communication with an Addicted or Alcoholic Person

December 9, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

Whether you are planning an intervention, or just trying to nudge someone a little closer to the point of getting help, or even trying to rebuild a good relationship with a newly-sober friend or family member, communicating effectively will help.

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Credibility

December 8, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

If something contradicts his/her experience, they’ll believe the experience. However, if we’re able to provide information in such a way that it better explains that experience, we gain credibility that extends to other positions we may take.

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Contracting

December 5, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

You should expect the alcoholic/ addict to test the agreement. It’s only natural. They need to see if you really mean it, or were just blowing smoke. If you stick to your guns, they’ll abandon the challenge.

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Defense: Denial

December 5, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

Repeated problems related to drinking or drug use force even the person in denial to acknowledge something is wrong–eventually.

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Consistency

December 4, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

It’s a much-repeated observation of psychology, that people feel an urge to act in ways that are consistent with their previous actions.

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The Mighty Commitment

December 2, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

People with alcoholism learn to test the resolve of those around them. That doesn’t mean they’re unaware of the need for change, just that they aren’t certain that other people will be there to support them.

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Clarity

December 1, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

It’s more about knowing exactly what we hope to gain from an interaction, and moving steadily towards that goal.

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Dual Dilemma: The Problem of Co-Occurring Disorders

November 30, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

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It took a while to develop effective guidelines for use of psychiatric meds with a population that was already addicted.

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Contrast

November 8, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

We want to simplify difficult choice so as to maximize the chance the alcoholic person will make the right one.

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