How to Talk so Someone With Addiction Will Listen (families)
Help for families struggling with an addiction problem
Useful stories and common sense answers to your questions about addiction, treatment, and recovery from Scott McMillin, co-author of “Freeing Someone You Love from Alcohol and Other Drugs” and six other popular addiction books.
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Are Humans “Hard-Wired” for Getting High?
I think the continuing popularity of substance use through the ages is because in practical terms, substances work.
Topics: addiction and the brain, hallucinogens, opioids
Sure, “set boundaries.” How?
With some people, it’s better not to answer,because they’ll just argue with you anyway. In that case, smile and depart the scene.
Topics: boundaries, co dependency, toxic relationships
Is LSD Going to Cure Alcoholism?
The Norwegian study is part of an ongoing effort to restore the right of researchers to conduct studies involving therapeutic uses of LSD.
Topics: alcohol, alcoholism, hallucinogens, research
Can Binge Drinking Make You Stupid?
Effects on learning and memory appear particularly important when the drinking occurred during adolescence, an ‘accelerated learning period’ for most of us.
Topics: addiction and the brain, alcohol, binge drinking, disease
Why Do Alcoholics Drink?
If you’re happy with your program of recovery, find another therapist who believes in letting the client direct the course of therapy.
Topics: alcoholism, diagnosis, disease, disease model, models of addiction, recognizing addiction, signs and symptoms
The “Party School” Problem
Topics: adolescent addiction, binge drinking, consequences, legal problems
My husband quit drinking, but he’s still not himself.
Topics: addiction and the brain, disease, promoting recovery
Communicating–In Spite of Cognitive Bias
The more emotional the topic, the more subjective we tend to be. And when something threatens us, it can be a real struggle to detach enough to come to a rational decision.
Topics: communication
Am I Being Supportive? Or Enabling?
Where real support is the result of caring, enabling usually springs from guilt, fear, or a misplaced sense of responsibility for someone else.
Topics: enabling and provoking
Nature or Nurture?
Think of the genetic component as an inherited vulnerability — a predisposition. The more vulnerable you are, the better your chances of becoming an alcoholic.
Topics: alcoholism, disease