It’s an essential truth that people with alcoholism think about changing for a long, long time before they seriously attempt it. They’re ambivalent about change, and struggle to make up their minds.

Is Your Alcoholic Already Considering Change?It’s an essential truth that people with alcoholism think about changing for a long, long time before they seriously attempt it. They’re ambivalent about change, and struggle to make up their minds. It’s as if there’s a balance scale in their heads that somehow isn’t yet balanced in favor of action.

One key to successful intervention is to take advantage of this existing motivation. Let’s begin with a simple inventory. To how many of these could you answer ‘YES’ about your loved one with alcoholism?

  1. Has already expressed on at least one occasion a desire to drink less.
  2. Has exhibited awareness that drinking is a problem (even if s/he doesn’t think it’s serious).
  3. Has expressed general dissatisfaction about the current state of his/her life.
  4. Has already made some effort to change his/her behavior for the better, even if it didn’t last.
  5. Has indicated that s/he thinks s/he might have a drinking problem.
  6. Has improved for a while before slipping back into problem drinking.
  7. Has acknowledged at least some concern about the effects of her/his drinking on others (such as children or family).
  8. Has expressed general concern about her/his health, even if not specifically related to drinking.
  9. Has expressed concern about the effect of drinking on her/his ability to work or function.
  10. Has already sought advice from others about her/his drinking, even if he didn’t follow it.

A ‘yes’ response to two of ten indicates that your alcoholic loved one is already considering change. The more ‘yes’ responses, the more seriously s/he’s considered it. That’s to our benefit.

With planning and preparation, we can take advantage of the positive motivation that already exists.



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