Contracting

December 5, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

You should expect the alcoholic/ addict to test the agreement. It’s only natural. They need to see if you really mean it, or were just blowing smoke. If you stick to your guns, they’ll abandon the challenge.

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Defense: Denial

December 5, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

Repeated problems related to drinking or drug use force even the person in denial to acknowledge something is wrong–eventually.

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Consistency

December 4, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

It’s a much-repeated observation of psychology, that people feel an urge to act in ways that are consistent with their previous actions.

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Comparing Out vs. Comparing In

December 3, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

Beginning your statement with ‘yes, but’ means you’re already arguing. And rest assured, the alcoholic person is well prepared for argument.

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The Mighty Commitment

December 2, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

People with alcoholism learn to test the resolve of those around them. That doesn’t mean they’re unaware of the need for change, just that they aren’t certain that other people will be there to support them.

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Clarity

December 1, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

It’s more about knowing exactly what we hope to gain from an interaction, and moving steadily towards that goal.

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Dual Dilemma: The Problem of Co-Occurring Disorders

November 30, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

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It took a while to develop effective guidelines for use of psychiatric meds with a population that was already addicted.

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Professional Intervention

November 9, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

Professional Intervention offers hope and a way out for many. Is it for you?

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Contrast

November 8, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

We want to simplify difficult choice so as to maximize the chance the alcoholic person will make the right one.

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Defense: Fantasy

November 6, 2012 by C. Scott McMillin

Eventually, the fantasy bubble gets popped, and the addict realizes they’ve wasted a lot of time when they could have been making progress.

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